{"id":2514,"date":"2019-02-05T09:08:25","date_gmt":"2019-02-05T09:08:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cutiadecarton.com\/relatia-mea-cu-banii-un-interviu-pentru-natalia-dabija-ro\/"},"modified":"2019-02-05T09:50:28","modified_gmt":"2019-02-05T09:50:28","slug":"relatia-mea-cu-banii-un-interviu-pentru-natalia-dabija-ro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cutiadecarton.com\/wordpress\/relatia-mea-cu-banii-un-interviu-pentru-natalia-dabija-ro\/","title":{"rendered":"Rela\u021bia mea cu banii &#8211; un interviu pentru natalia dabija.ro"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/nataliadabija.ro\">Natalia Dabija<\/a> m-a luat la \u00eentreb\u0103ri. Grele \u00eentreb\u0103ri, dac\u0103 vre\u021bi s\u0103 \u0219ti\u021bi perspectiva mea. Nu sunt o persoan\u0103 care consider\u0103 banii un subiect tabu, de\u0219i observ \u00een jurul meu uneori aceast\u0103 atitudine. Totu\u0219i mi-a fost greu s\u0103 dau r\u0103spunsuri. Probabil pentru c\u0103 a fost nevoie de mult\u0103 introspec\u021bie, de claritate \u0219i de focus pe finan\u021bele mele, un exerci\u021biu cu care nu sunt prea obi\u0219nuit\u0103. Recunosc, am tr\u0103it \u0219i mult\u0103 sinceritate, sentimentul acela de impostor (cine sunt eu s\u0103 vorbesc despre bani, cine \u00eemi d\u0103 mie autoritatea asta?!) \u0219i pu\u021bin\u0103 jen\u0103 la partea cu dona\u021biile (nu voiam s\u0103 par\u0103 c\u0103 m\u0103 laud, chestiile astea se fac \u00een anonimat, a\u0219a m-a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat familia).<\/p>\n<p>Am descoperit r\u0103spunz\u00e2nd la acest interviu c\u0103 am multe atitudini limitative, care vin din modul \u00een care a fost educat\u0103 genera\u021bia mea. M\u0103 opresc la un exemplu minuscul &#8211; ru\u0219inea de-a cere o m\u0103rire de salariu &#8211; ru\u0219ine pe care nu o observ la genera\u021biile mai tinere, care \u00ee\u0219i cer uneori chiar mai multe drepturi dec\u00e2t ar fi echitabil prin raportare la munca \u0219i la valoarea lor.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218tim c\u0103 suntem buni, \u0219tim c\u0103 muncim mai mult \u0219i mai responsabil, \u0219tim c\u0103 aducem valoare prin munca noastr\u0103 \u0219i totu\u0219i ezit\u0103m s\u0103 cerem bani. Probabil pentru c\u0103 am fost \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi s\u0103 fim perfec\u021bi \u0219i ne devaloriz\u0103m singuri pentru c\u0103 ni se pare c\u0103 nu atingem niciodat\u0103 perfec\u021biunea spre care tindem. \u0218i atunci cum s\u0103 ne permitem s\u0103 cerem mai mul\u021bi bani? Nu s-ar cuveni, nu-i a\u0219a?<\/p>\n<p>Am fost \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi s\u0103 st\u0103m cumin\u021bi la noi \u00een banc\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 sper\u0103m c\u0103 ceilal\u021bi ne vor observa meritele \u0219i ne vor m\u0103ri salariul. Nu e frumos s\u0103 te ba\u021bi cu pumnul \u00een piept \u0219i s\u0103 te lauzi singur pentru munca ta. Doar c\u0103 uneori validarea (mai ales cea salarial\u0103) nu vine din partea celorlal\u021bi \u0219i atunci e mai s\u0103n\u0103tos s\u0103 o facem singuri.<\/p>\n<p>Daaaa, sunt tare multe de vorbit \u0219i tare multe de corectat \u00een modul \u00een care am fost \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi s\u0103 ne raport\u0103m la bani. Tocmai de aceea v\u0103 \u00eendemn s\u0103 v\u0103 abona\u021bi la newletter-ul Nataliei Dabija, <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/nataliadabija.us18.list-manage.com\/subscribe?u=373f811a93ae29bdca3effd42&#038;id=f5a445e3e6\">N\u0103ravu-i totul<\/a> pentru a v\u0103 demonta treptat-treptat fiecare prejudecat\u0103 legat\u0103 de bani \u0219i a \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba s\u0103 v\u0103 cultiva\u021bi obiceiuri s\u0103n\u0103toase, care s\u0103 v\u0103 ajute s\u0103 economisi\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 tr\u0103i\u021bi con\u0219tient.<\/p>\n<p>V\u0103 invit s\u0103 citi\u021bi <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/nataliadabija.ro\/economisim-impreuna-cu-simona-de-la-cutiadecarton-com\/\">aici<\/a> interviul meu \u0219i v\u0103 stau la dispozi\u021bie cu r\u0103spunsuri suplimentare.<\/p>\n<p><img class=\"size-full\" data-wpid=\"2242\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cutiadecarton.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/img_20190205_101229_0225307848724712957594.jpg?w=697\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00cencepem un dialog pe tema atitudinilor limitative pe care le-am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu banii? Dau eu c\u00e2teva exemple, c\u00e2t s\u0103 sparg ghea\u021ba \u0219i a\u0219tept p\u0103rerile voastre \u00een comentarii.<\/p>\n<p>* Dac\u0103 patronul nu observ\u0103 singur c\u0103 muncesc mult \u0219i merit o m\u0103rire de salariu, atunci cum s\u0103-i cer eu?<\/p>\n<p>* S\u0103 economise\u0219ti \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 te zg\u00e2rce\u0219ti.<\/p>\n<p>* E umilitor s\u0103 vin cu caserola cu m\u00e2ncare g\u0103tit\u0103, c\u00e2nd to\u021bi colegii mei iau pr\u00e2nzul \u00een localurile alea fancy \u0219i scumpe, deschise la parterul cl\u0103dirii de birouri.<\/p>\n<p>* Trebuie s\u0103 cump\u0103r \u0219i eu ceva de black friday. Ce o s\u0103 r\u0103spund c\u00e2nd voi fi \u00eentrebat\u0103? O s\u0103 par o zg\u00e2rcit\u0103 \u0219i o ciudat\u0103 dac\u0103 nu am comandat chiar nimic.<\/p>\n<p>* Nu-mi permit un iphone\/minicooper\/vil\u0103 cu piscin\u0103 \u00een Bali, dar toat\u0103 lumea are, fac un \u00eemprumut s\u0103-mi iau \u0219i eu.<\/p>\n<p>* Trebuie s\u0103 men\u021bin aparen\u021bele. Nu trebuie s\u0103 \u0219tie nimeni c\u0103 am r\u0103mas f\u0103r\u0103 bani \u00eenainte de salariu.<\/p>\n<p>* Eeeee, afi\u0219ul \u0103sta \u00eel fac gratis, s-ar uita dubios la mine dac\u0103 le-a\u0219 cere bani pentru el. Asta e, m\u0103car men\u021bin o rela\u021bie bun\u0103. Ce mai conteaz\u0103 c\u0103 am facturi de pl\u0103tit. Am \u0219i o reputa\u021bie de artist \u00een care trebuie s\u0103 investesc.<\/p>\n<p>* \u00cei fac o reducere, ca \u00eentre prieteni, c\u0103 asta se a\u0219teapt\u0103 de la mine. Nimeni nu \u0219tie c\u00e2t de mari cheltuieli am cu business-ul \u0103sta.<\/p>\n<p>* Mi-au r\u0103mas 300 Ron. Ia s\u0103-i cheltui eu, s\u0103 fie cardul gol c\u00e2nd intr\u0103 salariul.<\/p>\n<p>Mul\u021bumesc, Natalia! A fost o experien\u021b\u0103 inedit\u0103 \u2665\ufe0f<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Natalia Dabija m-a luat la \u00eentreb\u0103ri. Grele \u00eentreb\u0103ri, dac\u0103 vre\u021bi s\u0103 \u0219ti\u021bi perspectiva mea. Nu sunt o persoan\u0103 care consider\u0103 banii un subiect tabu, de\u0219i observ \u00een jurul meu uneori aceast\u0103 atitudine. Totu\u0219i mi-a fost greu s\u0103 dau r\u0103spunsuri. Probabil pentru c\u0103 a fost nevoie de mult\u0103 introspec\u021bie, de claritate \u0219i de focus pe finan\u021bele [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2513,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true},"categories":[3],"tags":[659,660,658,662,664,661,657,663],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cutiadecarton.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/IMG_20190205_101229_022.jpg?fit=2413%2C1458&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p8DUJQ-Ey","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":2525,"url":"https:\/\/cutiadecarton.com\/wordpress\/natalia-dabija-lectii-despre-bani-pe-care-as-fi-vrut-sa-le-stiu-la-22-de-ani\/","url_meta":{"origin":2514,"position":0},"title":"Natalia Dabija &#8211; Lec\u021bii despre bani pe care a\u0219 fi vrut s\u0103 le \u0219tiu la 22 de ani","date":"18\/02\/2019","format":false,"excerpt":"Natalia Dabija m-a luat la \u00eentreb\u0103ri \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu obiceiurile mele de economisit. 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